This Someone Is Still Doing Nothing With Everything

Nothing is always something. Sometimes you just can’t see it yet.viciousfreizelogo

“Small” says nothing is always nothing.

“Big” says, “Just you wait and see.”

Expanding, going big. Or shrinking—and feeling small.

This is where I’ve got to start, because I’ve struggled between those two states for most of my life.

Fear is small, courage is large. The former drains you, burns like acid from the inside; the latter brims to the full, wrapping its arms around the whole wide world.

Art and artists can be frustrating because they sift through “the nothing” in search of The Something. That tends to throw up a lot of smoke and dust and confusion, and it isn’t a pretty process.

blankcanvasI struggle with making things even as I catch glimmers of what they could be, beyond the blank page, white canvas, empty wall, computer screen—through all the smoke, dust, and confusion.

So, here’s how I discovered The Something that became known as The Vicious Frieze I-III (1987–1989), aka “A hallucinogenic cartoon of prodigious span.”

***

By the summer of 1986 I was a year into my first full-time job at a direct mail marketing corporation, and two months in my first apartment.

And I was already feeling trapped.

Which is ironic because during that year I was promoted to Lead Copyeditor on our small team of a dozen editors. As lead, I had to make sure jobs stayed on schedule.

So every December since 1985, I ordered desktop planning calendars—you know, the blotter pad kind—where I kept all the due dates at a glance.

As I grew more bored with my job, I started doodling and scribbling in the calendar margins, and sometimes around schedule notes.

Every morning as I came into the office, I soon found my coworkers huddled around my desk, laughing and checking out my latest “artwork.”

If you’ve known me for very long you quickly realize I don’t throw anything away. I have closets full of artwork, stories, drawings and projects that, if they came to light again, I’m sure would find new life in the world.

By the end of ’86, I had a stack of used calendar pages stuffed in a bottom desk drawer. When I cleaned out the desk and set up the 1987 calendar, I couldn’t bear to throw those drawings away.

But I didn’t know what to do with them.

I couldn’t see The Something yet.

***

For weeks now I’ve languished over writing this post. I started and stopped cold. I confess that, until now, I couldn’t see The Something in it.

Then some new friends made observations that prodded things forward.

First, I have to say that a lot of 1986-87 still reverberates in 2016—things that have never changed, actually, but I’d forgotten after leaving corporate life (again) in 2012: The Noise and Distraction Factor.

The world’s gotten noisier. There’s a lack of sweetness and light. All the instant critics on social media. This goddamn election.

Some people, consciously or not, make other people feel small. Still others make an effort to lift folks up, give them a sense of hope, and make them feel the possibility of their own power.

Heeding too much of what others are saying and doing often leads to false comparisons. Fortunately the observations my new friends have made helped to cut through the noise and sharpen the signal.

The first came from artist Mark Thompson via this tweet: “Live without input, more output.”thompsontweet

The second was a lovely article by Brooklyn writer Stefanie Paige Gunning, published on Medium as “Eventually, You Write Your Own Story.” In it she relates how she was novelist Jennifer Weiner’s Number One Fangirl, but lost her reverence after reading an essay Weiner wrote that, in part, disparaged careers in advertising—a field where Gunning has found much satisfaction and success.

Gunning describes her initial feelings of self-doubt and loathing, which she quickly realized came from voices outside of her—family, friends, the media—and which sent her into a debilitating depression she calls “The Hole.”

What saved me from languishing on this post was recognizing that Gunning’s “The Hole” was the same as my “the nothing” or the “small. ” Gunning writes:

“I’ve learned that The Hole is a place I can climb out of on my own without damaging myself, that I’ve got boots and ropes and picks. That my legs are strong and my heart is pumping and my lungs are full of air.”

Just because I couldn’t see where I was going yet didn’t mean a one-way ticket to Despairland. I’d forgotten I had my own boots and ropes and picks.

They included not only years of luck (both good and bad), experience, and curiosity, but also tools like journals, diaries, sketch pads, pens, paper, stories, screenplays, photos, drawings … and that goddamn beautiful Vicious Frieze.

***

Oh how I wish I could point to a 1986 journal entry that’s—Voilà!—the eureka moment for the first Vicious Frieze. But there isn’t one.

But I do recall what I did.

Sometime in late 1986, I went back to all that work and held it in my hands.

I sifted through it, looked at it closely, sat with it, and waited for it to tell me what it wanted to be, not what I thought it should be.

And you know what?

The damn thing spoke.

penny_vf1Every drawing on every calendar month had something to say (such as, “Penny was the pretty girl next door” from the first Vicious Frieze, at left). Collectively they said: “We need to be together! Maybe in a collage! Maybe you could color in around us, and let us spread out and be that!

Well, how could I disagree with that?

You see, all our seconds turn to minutes, then minutes to hours. Maybe it’s another tedious workday, but then you overhear a coworker’s comment and that becomes a sketch, a drawing, a cartoon, a couple of scratches caught on paper about whatever was playfully passing through your mind.

That, my friends, is the sweet spot. Those playful moments. They’re the grist.

The gold.

Those “small” moments needed a push toward a bigger day. They don’t know it and maybe you don’t know it, but they require a quiet space where you are listening and feeling expansive, not small and contracted and shrinking into a hole of nothingness.vicious2

Trust me on this one.

So in December 1987, Vicious Frieze Numero Uno was completed. By January 1988, I spied a Vicious Frieze II on the horizon.

Mr. Big took up his tools—just some small stuff, doodles on a nothing day—and said, “Just you wait and see.”

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~ by completelyinthedark on November 11, 2016.

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